The separation of the relationship, often referred to simply as broken up , is the termination of intercourse by any means other than death. This action is generally called "dumping [someone]" in slang when initiated by a partner. This term tends to apply to married couples, where separation is usually called separation or divorce. When married couples get married, it is usually called "broken engagement".
Susie Orbach (1992) argues that the dissolution of dating relationships and buffalo gatherings can be equally painful or more painful than divorce because of non-marital relations is less socially recognized.
Kamiar-K. Rueckert argues with the works of Donald Winnicott that the ability to separate is a sign of development and emotional maturity that is basically healthy. Once, a child has gained the closeness and attachment by his earlier caregiver, he is able to develop autonomy and identity. If children do not perform good and protective quality of their parents' introgection, they will fear separation and separation.
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Model
Several psychological models have been proposed to explain the breaking of relationships, many of which suggest that 'dissolution is gradual'.
Stages leading to breakup
L. Lee proposes that there are five stages that eventually lead to separation.
Cycle of breakup
Steve Duck outlines the six-cycle cycle of breakup relationships, including
Factors that predict break up before marriage
Hill, Rubin and Peplau identified five predicted factors of breaking up before marriage:
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The uncoupling theory
Vaughan considers that the breaking process is asymmetrical to initiators and respondents: the first 'has begun to grieve for the loss of a relationship and has done something similar to exercise, mentally and, to varying degrees, based on experience, from life apart from the couple. '. The latter then have to catch up: 'to make their own transition out of relationships, partners must redefine initiators and negative relationships, legitimize dissolution'.
As a result, for Vaughan 'out of the relationship includes self-redefinition at several levels: in the individual's individual mind, between couples, and in the larger social context in which the relationship exists'. He considers that 'uncoupling is complete when partners have defined themselves and are defined by others as separate and independent of each other - when becoming partners is no longer the primary source of identity'.
See also
- Heartbroken
- Divorce
- Emotional baggage
- The human bond
- John Gottman
- Withdrawal
References
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